Finding my worth in others’ approval—also known as fearing man—has been a temptation for me as long as I can remember.
I’ve often measured my value by my last interaction. If I thought I presented myself well, I’d feel temporary relief. If I didn’t come across the way I wanted, I’d feel deeply inadequate. The worst part? No matter the outcome, the next interaction was always right around the corne...
The article presents an introspective look at the author's personal struggle with seeking validation from others. This fear is examined as a common issue that can lead individuals to measure their worth based on interactions and feedback. The author offers four strategies for combating this fear, focusing on cultivating compassion instead of confidence, preparing for anxious moments before meetings, avoiding negative self-feedback, and remembering one's identity as a child of God.
The article re...